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Do you think a relationship can survive a called off wedding?

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It wasn't called off due to covid.


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1 year ago
Are you ok?

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1 year ago
Thanks all ok. I have moved out, was a busy few days.

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1 year ago
Did you break up? Or moved out but trying to work on it

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1 year ago
This sounds like something my partners ex would do!
Our relationship would never recover from this!!!

If you guys make it work , elope to somewhere magical or atleast Change plans completely, that bitch ruined the plans you already had, don’t make it a rerun !!!

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1 year ago
Why did it have to be cancelled? Couldn't it have gone on without them?

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1 year ago
Postponed till when? That’s sucks and you have every right to be pissed off and hurt. What does the groom say about this? Is he gutted just like you? Is he afraid if he makes things official with you, wicked ex wife will deny him access to the kids. We need more info to determine if your partner is a c**t or got stuck in a situation he didn’t know how to handle. If I did this to my ex husband he still would’ve went ahead with the wedding because his mentality is no one especially ex wife will control my life choices regardless of the fallout/outcome, but OP not all men are built like that. Explain more, do you have kids together? Live together? Share finances? Are each other’s “person”. Maybe he thought postponing was the best option he had to save his connection with his kids 🤷🏻‍♀️

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1 year ago
Hmmm sorry but I was the bride I'd be furious

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1 year ago
I was. I moved out with our two kids for six months.

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1 year ago
Rightly so. Please see the OMG post. Probably should have scrolled down but I was overly keen to jump in. Feeling for you ❤❤

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1 year ago
Sorry its a bit tedious. The grooms kids were unable to attend at the last minute, the wedding was called off the day of the wedding.

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1 year ago
Its over love... Get out of there... It’s their fathers wedding?! How on earth did they end up double booked?

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1 year ago
Their mum wouldn't let them attend.

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1 year ago
Blokes still being minipulated by his ex wife on his own wedding day. He should have drove over there and picked them up. Sorry to say but this bloke is a spineless flog and still pandering to his ex wife. It's over.

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1 year ago
OMG! that's exactly what the ex wanted. He's played straight into her hands. I'm so sorry, that's really heartbreaking. I hope you have alot of people supporting you... what happened to you is unacceptable. Let him know you are willing to walk away then to accept that behaviour. The ex cannot control your lives that's ridiculous. If he doesn't put up a decent fight for you, you know your answer. I've always found this to be very telling about a man, like a test if you will. If he doesn't step to the challenge fuck him off, he's not worth it.

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1 year ago
Did he not know before the day that she wouldn’t let them come? Do you still love him or has this left a sour taste in your mouth

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1 year ago
Leave him

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1 year ago
Why then? I guess it depends on the reason?? Little more context needed

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1 year ago
This ^

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1 year ago
This.
Day of the wedding is a bit rough though.

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1 year ago
If it was called off based on his kids being unable to attend then it was an excuse not to go through with the wedding. A postponement would be understandable if it was before the wedding, but unless it’s a life or death situation definitely not the day of.

My feeling is this relationship is over.

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1 year ago
Thanks this is how I feel. It technically was postponed, but I feel like the relationship is over.

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1 year ago
Move on babe. Find somebody who deserves you

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1 year ago
This was his exes plan all along

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1 year ago
No, if it was postponed by bride or groom, it’s over.

If it was because of a legitimate logistical issue then yes, but id be saying lets go to the registary office instead