The problem with raising free thinking independent children is
Answered 2 years ago
that when they move out they don't bother with you any more:( Maybe I should have made sure they were emotionally damaged instead of being able to deal with lifes ups and downs without needing to talk to mum. I am proud of them but I feel abandoned. They are happy to chat if I call but never ring me. I now lie when people ask if so and so has called me lately as I feel like a failure. No question. Just a pity party.