45 minute limit here

He should cum when you tell him to.

Does he masturbate frequently and watch porn? It could be his penis is used to how he strokes it and not how a vagina feels. Is he taking medication? Does he have a strong grip when he masturbates? Is the tip of his penis still sensitive?

Massage his prostate with your finger. That will get him coming in no time.

Over an hour I start getting really bored, unless they are fantastic and generous lovers lol. I started seeing a guy recently who said he usually takes a while and the first few times we had sex, he took a while but we are starting to get to know each other and I know some cool tricks to make him blow. So yeah... practice practice practice haha

My hubby is the same. I don’t think he has cum with me this year. It’s very very rare but then so is our sex life. I feel a lot of guilt because I still get it if enjoyment from it and he feels shame.

5 minutes is too long. Hurry up and get it over with!

My husband was like that when we first started dating. Over the years we've learnt to master quickies due to out busy lives

My partner is the same but we make it interesting the whole time and enjoy it

Is there such a thing normal? Sounds like it’s his normal. At least he doesn’t cum in 5 seconds flat. So my advice is enjoy.