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Had another miscarriage. I hate my body for failing again. I’m not eating properly. Not cleaning my teeth. Not washing. A f$&k you to my useless body. How do you snap out of this.


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2 years ago
Im sorry. It gets easier
Ive lost three pregnancies at around 17-19 weeks
The first few months are tough

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2 years ago
So after going totally psychotic and screeching and yelling at random crap (like the dishwasher) I got my self together and did a massive rage clean. Feels better. But I just hate my body. I actually want to punish it. Hurt it. I hate it. We have two kids, I know I’m damn lucky to have them. But it’s too much and I can’t do this again.

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2 years ago
Remember your hormones are all over the place right now on top of grief. all you can do is be kind to yourself and rest lots, talk about it if it helps. I've had 6, the first was over 20 years ago and still think of that bubba and that's ok. They all hurt because they all were a part of you and took a piece of you with them when they left. They are all loved. Hugs to you xxx

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2 years ago
After 3 miscarriages the gynaecologist told us that my body was trying it's best to hold on to pregnancy as long as it could, even if it wasn't viable.

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2 years ago
How far were you ?
How many miscarriages have you had ?

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2 years ago
How is any of that relevant?

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2 years ago
I was 6 weeks 2 days. But you know what? It hurts just as fu&&ing much as my 10week loss, and my 8 week loss. I have two children but I’ve been through this 4 times now. It hurts every time

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2 years ago
💕💕💕💕💕

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2 years ago
I'm feeling you. I lost my pregnancy last week and absolutely devastated me. Please be kind to yourself xx

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2 years ago
Hugs to you xxx

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2 years ago
Baaaaaaaaabe. I just want to hug you <3 Sending so much love and good vibes your way. Please please PLEASE know that this was not your fault. Much love to you sister x

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2 years ago
Thank you. That’s so nice of you xxx

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2 years ago
Big hugs x

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2 years ago
I don't have an answer as to why such tragedies occur. It has been almost 1 year since mine. I honestly feel dad's health does play a big role in it all. Please try be good to yourself though!! You are amazing and your angel won't ever be forgotten. 🖤

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2 years ago
Try to love your body for trying.
Give it its best shot at a happier outcome next time by looking after yourself in this shitty time.

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2 years ago
Miscarriage is so common. I’ve had several. Your body isn’t useless. But in saying that I’m not going to give you empty platitudes and tell you it just isn’t. your time will come and everything happens for a reason because none of that is helpful. Miscarriage is one of the worst things I’ve experienced. What helped me get through it was to get on with life. I Went back to work, got busy with my life as it was pre pregnancy and miscarriage. It was really hard but I had because the alternative was not an option. Brush your teeth even if you don’t feel like it. Eat proper foods even if you dont feel like it. All these little things do help. And one day at a time, love. Big hugs to you xoxox