This time of year is always difficult for me. My husband had an inappropriate relationship with a co worker starting at a work Christmas party three years ago. We nearly divorced over it. Worked through it and are in a better place but every work Xmas event of his I wonder what they are getting up to. Probably nothing but my hurt won’t ever go away.

Just two weeks ago I left the emotional and financial abusive marriage of 12 years.. 🙁
Now I am in my own rental house, building my own life for the first time since the marriage..
But, I feel so lost. Have I done a mistake by leaving it..? Feel like, I am alone now..No one in my life.
And I will be all alone in the Christmas.

Fantastic. My husband is everything to me. We're like chalk and cheese but we're perfect for each other. ♥️

My marriage is the most natural thing in my life. My husband and I just gel. He’s the best person I’ve ever met. I adore him

How long have you been together?

I have come to discover after about 4 years, my husband is a groomer , a compulsive liar and I'm not sure I know him at all to be honest.
I suppose I should have seen the red flags such as he doesn't have any friends other than work acquaintances, his family have had nothing to do with him at least since I've known him, and suddenly I'm becoming aware of "stories" that do not add up.
Such a good groomer though, was the perfect gentleman when we met, but not anymore.
Unsure of who he really is

It’s become more of a business arrangement but we are still really good friends. We are both seeing other ppl and I feel like our friendship has improved without the tension our sex life was causing us.

Pretty crappy At the moment. We both have issues with each other an noones needs are being met but we are working hard to fix it and making the changes to get back to a good place. We have both gotten slack so we are nothing putting in the work to get back to a good place.

Mostly good days. But also some average days.!i just wish hubby wasn’t at the RSL 3 nights a weeks.

This past year and a half after I lost a close friend to cancer I started questioning my whole life. My husband has supported me through it. I think he is amazing and the strength he gave me has really shown me how much love he has for me. I thought he didn’t care because he didn’t show it before and it took this tragedy for me to realize.

Hard work. We’re having a hard time with kids and the stress is putting a lot of pressure on us. Not to mention extra marital affair by the other half. And I don’t feel the love from the other side of the relationship that I would like to/ previously. Wish it were better :(

Meh, I'd divorce him in a heartbeat if it wouldn't ruin us financially

Has its ups and and downs. Were not perfect. But we love each other ♥️