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Feeling cheated How can I overcome it

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I am 38 and been trying for 4th baby and my friend is 45 and had 3 surprise babies at 40 42 and last week


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5 years ago
You should feel blessed. Why on earth would you want 4 kids? Sounds like a nightmare to me.

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5 years ago
My grandma Had 8

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5 years ago
I agree and I have 4 kids😂😂

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5 years ago
I know exactly how you feel. I could have written this question word for word. To make yourself feel better shit on her car and smear it everywhere. Then have a nice relaxing romantic weekend away with her hubby, he has some potent swimmers that are sure to fill that oven with a bun.

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5 years ago
What about spending some time cuddling that new baby. And babysitting it, if possible.
Sometimes the maternal hormones kick in from exposure to the new baby. There used to be lots of stories of women who had completely given up on having a family, then adopted a baby, and within months were pregnant with their own.
This was in the days before it was practically impossible to adopt, and before there was any medical intervention to assist women to get pregnant.
Probably your grandmother or great grandmothers generation.

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5 years ago
You haven’t been cheated, not by your friend. It isn’t a competion..Some things in life are random. Such as whomand who doesn’t fall pregnant easily. Some people who have lots of kids should never have the ability to bear children. And some who can’t have kids should be able to have them. You need to not compare yourself to others. Because there is nothing you can do. Spend a moment feeling sorry for yourself. And then be glad your friend doesn’t share your misery. And then..... move on and out that energy into something you do have control over.

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5 years ago
It feels like you want to be happy for your friend but jealousy is getting in the way due to your frustration at not getting pregnant easily? That feeling of wanting to "complete" your family is a strong one. I thought I was done at 3 but I also want just one more. I am not going to though but that is my descision to make. It must be difficult, wanting just one more and struggling whilst your friend who is older is finding it so easy to concieve. I don't know how you would get over the feeling of being cheated. Maybe counselling will help you. I really do wish you all the best.

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5 years ago
You should find some comfort under your bridge. Double chin up luv