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Recently found out my friend with benefits actually has partner of 3yrs

Answered 3 months ago

I’ve recently Found out my friend with benefits actually has a partner of 3yrs.
We have been seeing each other since feb.
I want his partner to find out but at the same time don’t want to be the one to tell her so she knows who I am incase she rightfully spreads around my name etc.
would anyone happen to have any ideas how I can tell her the unfortunate news whilst remaining anonymous?
I also don’t want him to know I know as I don’t want to give him the chance to cover his tracks etc.

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3 months ago
Looks like someone fell in love with their FWB and chucking a tanty that he’s committed elsewhere. How about you cut ties, end arrangement and move on with your life without being a nasty beep. Fact is if this is how he operates inside his relationship he’ll get found out one day. Exactly what satisfaction could you possibly gain from doing this. And don’t give me this rubbish about girl code. You’re trying to eff him up cause you realised you were a side dish…end of!

3 months ago
1) Make a fake acc and tell her, make sure you send receipts as well cause she’s probably think your lying.

2) Tell your sneaky link you know he has a partner and see what he says!

Ps update us lol


3 months ago
She’ll *auto correct

4 months ago
I don’t think you should tell her. You don’t know her, you don’t know their situation. Maybe she knows, maybe it will push her over the edge, you don’t know what’s going on there.
Tell him if you haven’t already. Tell him you know and it’s scummy. Tell him you won’t be party to it. Then move on.
And get an sti check. What else has he lied about?