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I found messages on hubbys phone backwards and forwards clearly from another women making times for an appointment/s.

Answered 2 years ago

I've asked specifically what it is all about and who it is and got the response that he doesn't know..I just play along with people and i always get random messages from people. I've got the number and have done a lookup only to find the persons first name and the city.. the lady clearly states where she is working in the north of the state moving from city to city. What would you do? I love him but am struggling with the idea that he's potentially been with someone else. I've had no reason to question faithfulness till now


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ANSWER
2 years ago
OP any updates?

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2 years ago
Yes.. I've sat down ay spoken, told him that id found out she is an escort and said that the messages on his phone are not providing me with any comfort. I have asked him to be honest..

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2 years ago
And what did he say???

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2 years ago
What do you do though if he says he’s being honest and you don’t believe him?

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2 years ago
The response was that he doesn't know the woman and never met her... What would you do?? I want to believe him and am trying to trust that he's truthful but the evidence doesn't quite stack up in my mind..

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2 years ago
Of course he isn’t being honest. How can he deny messages on his phone? These things do not just randomly appear. He is so so guilty.

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2 years ago
Is there a money trail anywhere?

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2 years ago
Good point, scan through credit and bank transactions for suspicious payments

ANSWER
2 years ago
I just did a google search on the local classifieds... and found the answer, no need to call really but he has some talking to do!

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2 years ago
What does that mean? He was cheating?

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2 years ago
Was it penis enlargement? I bet it was penis enlargement 🍆

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2 years ago
Come on, give us an answer. It’s anonymous.

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2 years ago
Lol 🍆

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2 years ago
What was it?

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2 years ago
I found the number on a classified ad through a google search (an old one) . Reckons he has never met the woman or contacted her. I did tell him that the evidence doesn't look good and that if he's done anything he'll have to live with the guilt. Messages and phone calls don't just appear on someone else's phone. Its a matter of time before i catch him out if there's anything continuing to go on.. Has said he loves me and i have given him an opportunity to come clean and said how i am feeling about it all. Im feeling dissapointed and upset now the anger has passed and want to move on with things because i love him. In saying that i will be keeping an eye on things to say the least..

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2 years ago
Oh

ANSWER
2 years ago
Hire a pi to tail his ass he will do it again. Just get better at hiding stuff

ANSWER
2 years ago
My husband did this it’s a travelling escort. Try put the number in again with spaces for example xxxx xxx xxx then xxxxxxxxxx it’ll link to her advert

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2 years ago
Text and ask for an appointment and say you saw her advert. What services are offered. Then you’ll know 💯

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2 years ago
Which website did you use??

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2 years ago
Are u still together?

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2 years ago
Thankyou for your post... It prompted the google search with the result.. How did things work out with your relationship?? Any advice??

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2 years ago
I stayed for another 4 years after he told me it was nothing only to discover bank receipts to brothels and so much more and many texts to more women. I finally left 9.2.20

ANSWER
2 years ago
He is a cunt. Please don't believe him it's the lamest excuse ever. Ditch him.

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2 years ago
^ What she said

ANSWER
2 years ago
I'm invested in this. I need to know

ANSWER
2 years ago
If you call her behind his back it means you don't trust him. If you sit down with him and talk and express how this is affecting you and your relationship with him is a better option. You marry the person because it is based on trust and if that is going to be damaged then it will be a start of a never ending game. When if by any chance he is uncomfortable about the talk and you are not convinced enough that he is telling the truth - then by all means tell him- I have no choice but to call to at least make myself at ease in this relationship. I hope this helps somehow

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2 years ago
He obviously doesnt respect her if he is texting someone else.

ANSWER
2 years ago
Lawyer, hairdresser, prostitute, business colleague, medical professional. There are so many things this other person could be. Put your big girl panties on & ask your husband. If you think he is lying about what the person does then get him to call the number in front of you. If he refuses to call, then you call the number in front of him. Sort it out once & for all.

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2 years ago
Post the number here and we'll sort it out for you 😘

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2 years ago
So much this 😂

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2 years ago
Lol

ANSWER
2 years ago
Give me her number

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2 years ago
😆

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2 years ago
Lol

ANSWER
2 years ago
Call her i did whwn i was heavily pregnant and found numbers on his phone. He was gonna fly to qld and party with her. I then told her point blank i was heavily pregnant with his child and he shouldnt be texting her.

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2 years ago
Ugh, that's terrible. How did this work out?

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2 years ago
We split when they out child 8 months old once a cheater always a cheater ladies

ANSWER
2 years ago
Google the number and see what comes up for it

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2 years ago
Maybe look the person up on facebook. Its quite possible that its above board but its super weird he doesn't know. As mentioned coud be hairdresser etc

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2 years ago
He’s cheating on you

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2 years ago
Call the number and see if she answers casually or in a business manner. I would enquire about booking your 18 year old brother for a special appointment to loose his virginity and you will then know if she’s an escort

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2 years ago
Did you call her?

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2 years ago
block your caller ID and call her

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2 years ago
Maybe she's a hair dresser?

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2 years ago
Yes, I agree with the poster above - call her.

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2 years ago
Can you call her?