Needing some advice on a weird situation
Answered 2 years ago
I've been single for a while now and the last month or so I've been talking with this guy who is a great bloke and all, we get along really well and it's always a good time but the thing is, we have barely anything in common. We've "done the deed" once but it was half assed as he was nervous and couldn't exactly perform - so the speak.
Ok, that's part one.
I've since been talking to a mate of his who I really like and have a lot more in common with - haven't done the nasty with this one - he's caring and happy and easy to be around. But, they see each other everyday. Awks.
Question - How the f do I handle this situation?
Slut shaming can't be a thing cause I've barely had sex for months, haha
Thanks in advance
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Tell the second guy that you'd like to get to know him more; or, well, get to know him more. Keep talking, getting to know him, whatever it is you're already doing. Do things you've got in common, hobbies and whatnot. You don't need to make anything official or monogamous if you're not ready for that, but once you are ready make sure you have a discussion about it so you're both clear on what you want and where your boundaries are.
If it gets weird between the friends that's for them to deal with. You're a human being, Bloke 1 doesn't own you or get dibs on dating you just because he met you first.
Thanks for the great advice x