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What does it mean when your girlfriend would rather watch porn, without you in the room?

Answered 2 years ago

I've offer to help pleasure her, I've offer sexual favours and she rather watch porn by herself and her porn preference is completely opposite of what I have to offer.


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2 years ago
Honestly, its possibly because she feels she does it better herself. You being there is just a distraction and maybe your not as good as you think you are at "sexual favours" and she just doesnt want to hurt your feelings. I was seeing this guy a few months ago and he claimed to be the best pussy licker, he loved it blah blah. When the deed actaully happened he was shit at it so I ended up going home and having to finish myself off, waste of time him even being there haha. Sounds harsh but some women don't climax as quickly as others and if your not doing it right then its just boring for us.
Could be completely different to what shes thinking but you need to have a blunt chat to her and don't be upset if she tells you things that you don't want to hear.

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2 years ago
My husband is the same. No matter how much communication is happening, he just is no where near it. I feel like there's only so much open communication before you start to make someone feel like shit for basically criticising the fact they're terrible at pleasuring you, so much more enjoyable by myself

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2 years ago
Maybe she gets off on something she knows would disgust you. Maybe she likes watching gay male porn.

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2 years ago
Maybe she's embarrassed

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2 years ago
My husband and I are the same it will destroy your sex life if you don’t do something about it early on

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2 years ago
If this upsets you discuss it with her. Try and open a line of communication where you can discuss and compromise.

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2 years ago
Maybe because of what you just said. What turns her on is what you can’t give her