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Am I terrible mom?

Answered 5 years ago

So starters my and my husband haven’t had sex since before our daughter was born she’s 10 months but that’s a different story. Now I do take care of myself from time to time but no super super often maybe like twice a month. Sometimes I just get hit with feeling like all of a sudden seemingly nothing will set off an alarm in my head like hey your horny as f**k now and you better do something about it. So my daughter was just playing on the floor crawling around doing her normal baby things and the alarm on my head went off now I didn’t want to leave her alone of course to go to my bedroom for a few minutes but I felt like I needed relief so I just put my hand down my pants on the couch and took care of it really quick with her playing on the floor in front of me. I know she’s had absolutely zero idea of what I was doing and I definitely won’t do that as she gets older but has anyone else been in the same type of situation before and done that?Or am a just a crappy mom for doing that?


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5 years ago
Troll
Funny how your baby aged 2 months in one day!
In DLS your baby is 8 months old, suddenly she’s now 10 months
Probably not even your kid!

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5 years ago
Yep your right because no one in the history of the internet has ever made a typo or clicked the wrong thing on those little drop down menus while setting a account for something on a phone 🤦‍♀️

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5 years ago
You are not a crappy Mum. I remember my baby being a similar age I was breastfeeding feeding them and suddenly got horny. Once they fell asleep I put them down and finished myself off. I felt super guilty and awkward after. I’m not saying it’s normal but it does happen.

Hopefully your sex drive is back and you can get back to doing it with hubby.

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5 years ago
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5 years ago
No different to my husband and I having sex in the bed beside baby's bassinet. Don't feel guilty. But maybe try and ignore the urge till bub has a nap next time so you can enjoy yourself a bit more ;)

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5 years ago
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