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Thoughts wanted. I plan to have drinks with my husband this w/end, and bring up the topic of a 3-some. He can decide on

Answered 2 years ago

Thoughts wanted. I plan to have drinks with my husband this w/end, and bring up the topic of a 3-some. He can decide on the sex of the third person, so he feels like he has the power.

Has anyone done something similar...and if so what are the pros/cons?

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2 years ago
You only live once hun. If it’s something you really want, well get him drunk, and then see how he reacts to the idea. You’ll know pretty much straight away

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2 years ago
Yasss. Just do it

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2 years ago
Will you be ok with it, if your partner chooses a female as the other person? Watching him do her, mIght evoke some negative emotions for you. Same thing could happen if situation was reversed. I’ve always wanted to do one myself, but jealousy would creap in

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2 years ago
Done it and it was not our cup of tea, we did it when newly together wouldn't and couldn't do it now and don't feel the need to try it again

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2 years ago
Where did it go wrong for you?

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2 years ago
Wrong person, too much to drink, afterwards we realised that a threesome didn't tickle our fancy and it isn't always everyone's dream to do so

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2 years ago
Search questions, this has been asked heaps