My crush turned into an affair be careful because dreams do come true.

Yes I have had one on my boss, same age and amazing chemistry. You simply don’t act on it, you can have your fantasies but try to control yourself you don’t want to destroy his or your marriage.

Having a girly crush isn’t a problem. Acting on it is. I’ve had inappropriate crushes on my kids’ friends fathers at time. Would never act on it but they are so good looking it’s hard not to be crushing.

Crushes come and go. Just one more sign that you're human. If you don't let it cause havoc for yourself or anyone else, simply enjoy it inwardly and let it pass in due time and don't give people reason to talk. People can be pretty mean in such institutions, especially if they think that they see a budding romance somewhere.

My sons 16 year old friend has a crush on me and I try to hide in my room when he’s over

Yeah currently have one on my older OB. I am not pregnant but trying with ivf and he is a very handsome man we have a lot in common. I know it is just a crush as I only think of him for a few days after each appointment. I also think it is a bit of transference as he is helping me/ husband and I get pregnant. Sometimes he comes into my fantasies but I try to squash that.

Yes I’ve had a few. They don’t last. Especially when I no longer see the person I’ve a crush on around. I see a crush as a distant admiration. Nothing wrong with it sinking as it goes no further