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Can’t handle my partners outburst anymore
Answered 5 years ago
He expects the kitchen to look tidy when I am cooking when he comes home from work and I can’t handle his abuse
Has he got OCD or he is an abuser ?
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5 years ago
I hear the couple across the road, him screaming his face off at her like she is a piece of dirt every single day over ridiculous things like this until she cries. Today it was because there was a pair of the kids shoes at the front door, apparently that deserved him calling her every name under the sun for an hour..
Omg my husband and I both want to knock his teeth in and I'm pretty sure the rest of our neighbourhood would too, He is such an asshole, I feel so sorry for her.
Omg my husband and I both want to knock his teeth in and I'm pretty sure the rest of our neighbourhood would too, He is such an asshole, I feel so sorry for her.
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5 years ago
Call police
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5 years ago
I agree with above call police verbal abuse is abuse !! And the kids will be damaged hearing it
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5 years ago
Leave
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5 years ago
Same as my husband. How can you expect something to be pristine when I’m damn using it. My husband is psycho too and it’s not ocd it’s a way to start a fight or control
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5 years ago
Well it's not right. We can't tell you why he does it as we don't know him. Is generally unhappy?You could try counseling, an outside professional might be able to help you. Or just try to discuss it with him.
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5 years ago
He was bought up by an OCD mum
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5 years ago
My husband is the same and also brought up by an mum who was very pedantic about cleanliness, which is a shame because I am a messy cook. He wants everything clean and tidy as long as he is not the one doing the cleaning. I have had to boycott cooking for a bit saying if you don't like the way I cook then you do it anyway you like. Once he established that it can be hard to cook with out making abit of a mess he settled down and let me do my own thing my own way.
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5 years ago
I’m a messy cook. I put all my peelings and packages and rubbish in the sink then clean it all up at the end. My husband walks in midway and yells at me for the mess in the sink. After a few times I yelled back at him. Told him if he doesn’t like the way I cook then he can cook. He leaves me alone now. Your husband should not be upset or angry at you. Is he unhappy at you for other reasons too?
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5 years ago
He is a mudface