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I feel like my friend is not honest with me and she’s a little bit jealous of me. We’ve been friends for more than 6 yea

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I feel like my friend is not honest with me and she’s a little bit jealous of me. We’ve been friends for more than 6 years...

I feel like my friend is not honest with me and she’s a little bit jealous of me. We’ve been friends for more than 6 years, she helped me so much she’s been there for me when I needed her most of the time( I mean like helping me record my demo for free because she works in the recording studio) I’m super grateful for that I try to be there for her as well and I feel really bad because of this feeling but I can’t help it I feel like she’s not honest with me , she never invited me to her house, we’re both musicians , English is not our first language I helped her few times with lyrics for her songs but she didn’t give me a credit she made it look like she wrote those lyrics by herself even tho 95% is mine. I feel like she hates when I sing , she closes the door when I sing( she works in the recording studio as I mentioned before I rehearse there sometimes) and doesn’t like my vids on Instagram of me singing just pics. I don’t wanna brag but I don’t sing bad and I have high goals and I write nice songs so is she. We have same goals and i want the best for her . I have really difficult time right now I had no place to live , she knew it and she didn’t even offer to crush at her place she lives with her mom , ok maybe she has no place or her mum against it, Ok but she knows that I live in hostel and sometimes I’m lonely at least she could invite me to her apartment for a tea or something, She knows that I hate to stay in my room. Sometimes I ask if I can hang out at the studio but she’s not also happy about that. I know I need to get my own life I’m trying to do it but she’s like sister to me and I hate to feel this way but I feel it and I can’t do anything with it . I’m male (gay) she has a boyfriend she invites him to her apartment it kinda hurts that she didn’t invite me ... sorry for my English it’s not the best... what should I do ? Or maybe I’m just a crappy person?


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5 years ago
I think you are in danger of losing a wonderful friend by not respecting her boundaries. This does not make you a crappy person, although you sound like you are not self aware and have low self esteem. She has a home, a job and a boyfriend. You are a friend and she has helped you record your songs. You should also get a job start off low and work your way up, this will help you get a place to live, try sharing with other people to reduce costs and find your own boyfriend/partner. I feel like you expect to much.