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Should i be upset that my husband goes out every night?

Answered 4 years ago

My husband and i both work nights. His job lets off at different times each night. Mine is a full 12 hrs. Every night when he gets off he goes and hangs out with his friends. On our nights off he is out with his friends all night. I have told him i dont like it and he needs to start staying at home.1 day he will say he knows and he is working on it. Other days he says that i am being controlling. He cheated on me 3 yrs ago and i can't trust him. He says he is just with friends. But when he is with his friends he ignores my calls or turns off his phone. And then tells me its my fault he does this. Tries to accuse me of cheating on him. I told him he is just trying to find fault in me so he can act an ass or continue the stupidity. I dont know where to go from here. Im at my whits end. I love him but i cant deal with much more. Im not allowed to go out otherwise im a whore automatically


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4 years ago
The writing is well and truly on the wall. The relationship is over, sounds like you are unhappy and rightly so, get rid of him.

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4 years ago
He should be rebuilding the trust he broke 3 yrs ago not making you question it constantly and then twisting and turning it to be about you. It's emotionally controlling. Only you know when enough is enough but please know you deserve better. Take care of yourself

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4 years ago
Wtf isn’t he taking lockdown seriously?

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4 years ago
Wow he is selfish, we are all self isolating and he is out with friends? If he accuses you of cheating that is the sign of a cheater.

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4 years ago
Even if he's not cheating, there is no relationship without trust

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4 years ago
Where do you go from here? You either leave or he leaves. It’s not going to get better - he sounds like he shouldn’t be married or in a long term relationship. If you are planning on having children with him, DON’T!!!!

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4 years ago
You need to leave him. I'm sorry but it sounds like he is cheating again. Even if he isn't, he is disrespecting you so badly. Don't allow it anymore xx

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4 years ago
I agree with everyone else. It does sound like he’s cheating.

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4 years ago
Unfortunately I would say he is cheating

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4 years ago
He’s not with his friends
He’s cheating on you

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4 years ago
He’s breaking the rules