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Anyone gone to "Couples Clubs"?

Answered 9 months ago

My husband and I are both interested in what going to one of the "Couples Clubs" (Swingers places) in Sydney would be like... neither have been, or know anyone who has to ask questions.

Has anyone here actually been to one or had experience like this?

We would love to have people watching us, but we probably arent ready to involve others yet (though hubby says he would find it an incredible turn on to see me get another guy off).

Anyone been? Are we deviants...?


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9 months ago
With Covid, a lot of the ‘sex clubs’ have closed or limited activity, so we started having online sex experiences with others on Skype. It’s actually working out, as we can scratch our exhibitionist itch, while enjoying sex with each other (while watching another person or couple on Skype) and finish with a laugh and a chat over a drink.

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9 months ago
This sounds great! How do you organise it? Is there a site?

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3 months ago
How did you organise this? Sounds great

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10 months ago
I think same room sex would be a great place to start. We have some friends that we would like to try it with but don't even know how to get that conversation started.

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10 months ago
We’d love to have that conversation with you to see if we’re a match for you two.

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10 months ago
The older I get the more I am getting into the thought of swinging or same room play. I am not sure what it is, but I am confident enough in myself and my relationship to give it a try. Trouble is we live in western Queensland so it would be a trip to the big smoke for us.

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10 months ago
It would be great if this site had direct messaging installed. We’re in a similar place as you but in WA. It’d be great to be able to chat privately.

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10 months ago
We have had sex in zoom while watching another couple at the same time and it was an incredible thrill! Something like that might be a good start.

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10 months ago
Thanks! I have heard of this... how did you organise it?

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10 months ago
Oh hi! Ok, so we were on reddit chatting to another couple who incidentally were from Australia too, and they invited us to have zoom sex with them. It was awkward for about two minutes then all four of us just really got into it. So we’ve done it a handful of times since. There are no plans to meet up at all yet, but we do enjoy watching each other have sex then pouring a glass of red for a chat afterwards. It actually feels surprisingly normal now. 😆

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10 months ago
No bloody way. There is no bloody way I could even begin to get over my body image issues enough to think about swapping.

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10 months ago
It not as uncommon as you think. The ex and I (totally unrelated reason for her being an "ex"). Your definitely not deviants either. Just make sure you both communicate, set boundaries and be prepared to go with the flow. Sometimes it's not what it cracks up to be, all sorts of things can change the night. Overall it's a great "toe in" to swinging.

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10 months ago
We have had same-room-sex with friends once before and it was a real thrill! We would definitely consider going to a swingers club in Sydney (as it’s not in our home state), so we might go the next time we’re in Sydney!