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I think you wayyy over reacted.
Could he have been around others? Is he into dirty talk? I wouldn’t read too much into it. I suck at dirty talk so when my ex was away I would just be like “k. Thanks” with nudes he sent. He would go into some graphic detail about what he would like to be doing. I wasn’t into that, I’m good with a picture, my imagination and a little pork if I need it to get me off. It wasn’t like I didn’t like the photos, my idea of dirty talk sucks like “f**k yeah, nice. I like your knee caps”
The moral of my story, don’t take it to heart. He probably spanked the monkey and was happy with them.
For one moment f**k what anyone else thinks, get your clothes off and stand in front of the mirror. Now you find 3 things about your body you like. It doesn’t need to be sexual, maybe you like the soft skin on your arse, maybe you like the way your hair flows down your back. Stand there and look at yourself for five minutes and find at least those three things. You need to see your beautiful body for what it truly is, not your minds perception of it. Get your confidence back. Don’t base everything of this reaction of your husbands. It is probably nothing.
You are beautiful. You are sexual. You deserve to feel sexy. Don’t hold yourself back.
I think that it really took guts to take photos of yourself and send them to your partner like that. I wouldn't think that his lack of reaction is due to disgust at the way you look. I am always amazed that men seem to see us differently than we see ourselves. I am not sure what you mean by nude pictures. Did you just take take pictures of yourself nude, thats is it? I only bring it up because today my husband was talking to me about the weather whilst I was buck naked cleaning the shower. My nudity wasn't a big deal to him as he has seen me naked regularly. I wonder if perhaps this the problem. It's not that you don't look good but more that he is used to seeing you naked. maybe if you sent him something a bit different. New lingerie perhaps or a suggestive pose. Something that he is not used to seeing from you.
He called you sexy and said they were nice... he probably wanted to send a quick reply so he could lay back and have a wankto them 😂. I think you are getting upset for no reason. Men don’t usually go into detailed praise about how appreciative they are for a couple of dirty pics of their missus, regardless of you moving out of your comfort zone...
Maybe he was too busy wanking to type in a better response. But guys aren't like women, if he's not great with words that may have been the best response you could've gotten lol.
Well lovely, if he didn't want to see your photos, he wouldn't have asked for them. I wouldn't read too much into his reply. Maybe he was somewhere he couldn't get right into the moment?
Chin up 😊
Urgh my husband was the same when he was FIFO. He'd send back "cool send more" or "try and get a better angle". Better angle?! Bitch I was 8 months pregnant at that point and couldn't bend any other way.
I reacted the way you did. I was crushed. That motherfucker. I ended up sending him back "you don't like them?" But he rang me and explained that he does like them but he's not the type to talk dirty like that. Then he sent me a nice nude of his own (I mean muscles showing as well, not just a dick staring at the screen).
Don't let his lack of enthusiasm get you down. I bet the first time he comes home and gets you into bed, he'll do that "aaah f**k yeah" face/noise.
Many men don't tend to express their emotions verbally, and especially not in writing anyway, especially guys who do physical work; the reaction you will get is the physical one. He might pounce on you when he comes through the door when he gets home!.
Might have been different if he works with words, like an author or poet.
And get back into that stripping !
My husband likes porn a lot, but never initiates sex or shows interest in me that way. I was a model many years ago, and I still look decent. He's fu***d up.
They are nice is better than a reaction I once got from my husband when we were first married (soon to be ex now). I had dressed nice and sexy, not whoreish just some cleavage etc. He just came in and stared at me in disgust. When I questioned him about it he said "you were trying too hard" 😔