So last night about 10:30 police showed up. I was in bed in my daughters room as was my husband in our room.

Police began knocking not one or two but 6!

Things have been tense here as he hasn’t worked since November after an accident and subsequent surgery. As he is a trucker this is the most time we have been together in our 7 years.

I am frustrated as firstly the fight was 9 hours before they can BUT!!!! They referred my husband to DV connect for Men. I was treated as though I was the aggressor and he the victim!! Thing is it’s very opposite.

I need to get out and am setting myself up to do so but please share with me your coping techniques for not reacting to bullshit or the nasty comments. I need to stay calm and begin to take back ME!

I am going back to psychologist but I like to also hear personal experiences of how you dealt with it and maybe I can try to cope

Thank you 😊