Why would he not share with me?
Answered 3 years ago
I have a male work colleague and business partner. He lives in Melbourne and I live in Gold coast. We are very close friends too. I tols him when i was pregnant 15 months ago. We talk a lot, daily, text hundred times a month etc. He never asks me about my husband and kids, like he completely avoids this topic. Never mentions his partner etc. We have been close friends and colleagues for 5 years. He rang me last week and said he had a baby last week. I was like “wtf ?” He said “ im sorry i really wanted to tell you blah blah blah. But im hurt that he couldnt find one time in 9 months to share this. I even seen him face to face in this time. Now i feel odd amd dont know what to think? I shared my cancer diagnosis. Chemo treatment everything with him. Im hurt he couldnt share this news with me. Now im thinking of cutting him from my life on basis that i cant be that important in his life.
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I also just found out he for married 12 months ago and I had no idea. I just feel like an idiot as people keep asking why i didnt know as we were close.