Help! Can someone help me approach this tactfully?
Answered 4 years ago
Long story short, my dad lives with us, he has a number of health problems, was only meant to be for a few weeks but going on about 5 months now..
He helps financially occasionally but otherwise does nothing around the house, at all.
But my biggest issue is how he speaks to the kids, he doesn't spend any time with them and constantly responds to anything they say to him with smart arse comments, a number of which are to old for them or inappropriate. Always complains about them especially if they are watching tv/playing the game.
I'm not sure how to approach it as if I pull him up on anything he will really take it to heart and go into a mood for a few days and won't speak to me, or worse case will pack up and go live the only place he can which is unsuitable. My partner is really getting over it, i don't blame him. Feel horrible because my little boy looks to be a bit scared of him, does anyone have any ideas cause I am torn being in the middle?? Want to resolve before it blows up
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Time to decide who is more important to defend, love.
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His reply was "yeah they knew you were coming so they all jumped off to get away from you"
Or jokes about them not having friends or smelling bad, or being ugly. Or like previously said some jokes have a sexually inappropriate innuendo.
It's putting a big strain on the house hold. I'm about to snap, I wouldn't let anyone else treat my kids this way, I need to find a delicate way to stop it or I will be the worst person in the world.