Is giving a handjob cheating?
Answered 14 days ago
At the start of the year my girlfriends threw me a “Naughty Forty” party - complete with a stripper - at my house.
Part of his dance had me sitting on a chair while he danced around me. I was quite tipsy so started to fondle him a bit. We all got carried away and most of us would give him a bit of a handjob as he danced around the group. This ended with me wanking him until he finished in my hands (with a bit i missed squirted on my boobs and top).
We all had a good laugh at the time, but I do wonder how common this is with strippers and private parties...? Has anyone else had these types of things with strippers or should I be ashamed...!?)
PS I did tell hubby about it and at first hen didn’t believe me, then was somewhere between turned on and amused.
Have any other women done this??
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Your husband was fine with it so I don’t think it was cheating.
My husband wouldn’t be ok with this so it would be cheating.
Cheating is doing something in a relationship that the other person is NOT comfortable with you doing. It has nothing to do with other people relationships.