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Is giving a handjob cheating?

Answered 2 years ago

At the start of the year my girlfriends threw me a “Naughty Forty” party - complete with a stripper - at my house.

Part of his dance had me sitting on a chair while he danced around me. I was quite tipsy so started to fondle him a bit. We all got carried away and most of us would give him a bit of a handjob as he danced around the group. This ended with me wanking him until he finished in my hands (with a bit i missed squirted on my boobs and top).

We all had a good laugh at the time, but I do wonder how common this is with strippers and private parties...? Has anyone else had these types of things with strippers or should I be ashamed...!?)

PS I did tell hubby about it and at first hen didn’t believe me, then was somewhere between turned on and amused.

Have any other women done this??


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2 years ago
I think that’s great to hear ! It’s all about having fun and I know some men like to fondle my boobs so why can’t some girls fondle a hot cock ? And great that he finished in your hands and your boobs, hope it was still there when hubby saw you? Then when he got excited you had some more fun ? 👍

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2 years ago
What makes a "hot cock"? I think they're weird things!

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2 years ago
How/when are men fondling your boobs?

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2 years ago
Curious here too

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2 years ago
I do not think it was cheating. I have done this before and the stripper felt me up. I old my husband and he got turned on! All good fun.

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2 years ago
Did you get him off or just have a grab?

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3 years ago
You were open and honest about it, and your husband doesn’t seem bothered by it so I would say it’s not cheating. The same but reverse happens at bucks parties and no one condemns the dudes for it, so all you Karen’s being rude to the poster should take a good hard look at themselves

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3 years ago
I think it was cheating but the husband was ok with the cheating. Just coz he’s ok with it , doesn’t mean it wasn’t cheating. And dudes are condemned for it all the time too, but this thread isn’t about dudes, it’s about this ladies actions.

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3 years ago
I think it is fine. Just a bit of innocent fun.
I know of such a party where three of the women present sucked the stripper & another actually had sex with him. Some of them were happpily married.
He was an African American & very well hung which turned them on & as they said, " when would they ever get an opportunity like that again"

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3 years ago
Wonder if their hubby’s did the same with a stripper they would view it the same?

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3 years ago
Cheating & disgusting! If the stripper did this he’s A. Not professional, probably in it for the thrills. B. Probably fucks chicks at hear parties and has fuck knows what.
Would you be okay if someone whacked off your hubby and he came on her titties or He flicked a strippers clit till she came?

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3 years ago
No

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3 years ago
Can hubby finger a female stripper ?

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4 years ago
Im curious about the other part of the question - how common are the “extras” when you have a stripper at a private party? Ill be planning a Hens Night for next year. How often does this happen?

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4 years ago
Yes me too!!

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3 years ago
I’ve attended a party where I thought boundaries were being crossed not as bad as this though.

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3 years ago
In what way were they being crossed? I've had friends go to these and say nothing happens, and others who say stuff CAN happen. Would love to know what you have actually seen??

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3 years ago
Way to respect your marriage 👍

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4 years ago
If your husband's okay with it then it's fine I guess. Mine would not be.

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4 years ago
This. What works in one relationship doesn’t in others.
Your husband was fine with it so I don’t think it was cheating.
My husband wouldn’t be ok with this so it would be cheating.
Cheating is doing something in a relationship that the other person is NOT comfortable with you doing. It has nothing to do with other people relationships.

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3 years ago
I agree. I'd always be thinking if he is okay with it and now knows he may now take a free past card! What's good for you he'll think may be great for him too!

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3 years ago
YES

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4 years ago
I think this ia made up story

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3 years ago
I have a few gym buddies that are strippers, this is common when the chick ‘are hot’

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3 years ago
YES

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3 years ago
This makes you and your friends sounds like a bunch of ho*s.

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4 years ago
If the shoe was on the other foot, how would you feel? If hubby received a hand job from another woman at a party???

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4 years ago
My god! Where did you get this stripper from? This is a disgusting story. Yes, of course you cheated. You made another man cum in front of a bunch of friends. Have you no respect for yourself? Or your marriage? Be thankful your husband has no self worth either. It looks like you got away with it.

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4 years ago
I think you crossed the line. And I think you know it too or you wouldn't be asking. A stripper is for a hens night or bucks night not a birthday party and not a married person that is just tacky. You know you did the wrong thing so admit it move on and DONT so it again. Btw your husband being blaise about it speaks volumes he is probably getting some on the side.

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4 years ago
Yeah I wouldn't be happy if my hubby did the same with a stripper. To me it is cheating. But everyone has their own ideas of it.

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4 years ago
Do you feel like you’ve cheated?

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4 years ago
I wont even give my husband a hand job lol

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4 years ago
🤣🤣🤣

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4 years ago
How would you feel if he went to a rub and tug joint and came in another woman’s hands? The fact that he’s not too worried about what you’ve done suggests that he doesn’t think that it’s cheating and may have done similar things himself.....

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4 years ago
Pretty gross.

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4 years ago
Yes

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4 years ago
Would you be happy if your partner fingered a stripper ?

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4 years ago
It’s interesting, because of the number of women present if feels different when you tell, but to me this is still cheating. I wonder when they parties when groups of men they think it is not cheating too, since there are a number of men present. I would feel uncomfortable in this setting but each to their own

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4 years ago
So gross

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4 years ago
I think you could have got away with it until you made him cum “in your hand” ;)

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4 years ago
If it wasn’t talked about BEFORE it happening with your husband - or at least those sort of boundaries (or lack thereof) agreed to beforehand ... it is definitely not ok.

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4 years ago
Would you consider it cheating if your husband fingered a stripper till she came?

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4 years ago
I think it is. It’s still another man his job is to strip not receive sexual favours from you. What’s so different to him and just giving a random a handjob your still wanking off another man that’s NOT your husband. It’s a sexual act. Kudos to him though he even got paid for it

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4 years ago
If your husband is ok with it, I wonder where he thinks the line is with female strippers and if he’s been there. Just a thought.

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4 years ago
I personally would not want to do this with another man drunk or not. If you and your husband are ok with it no point worrying about it now. It is good you told him it would be worse if he thought you were hiding it.

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4 years ago
I think it’s cheating