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How to forget someone??
Answered 4 years ago
It's ended but we work together so still seeing each other most days. It's OK at work, sure a little umcomfortable for me but we can still do our jobs and have a chat as a group in the smoko room. Etc. BUT I cant get him out of my head. I go on fb and see he's online and I actually have to force myself not to contact him. If I remove him from my socials that will make things awkward at work. And no I can't leave... How do I forget him and get him out of my head?????
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4 years ago
You can hide him from your socials without deleting him. Also, get busy. Fill your life (as much as you can in these times) with things you enjoy doing so you have no time to think about him. In time, he will fade from your mind
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4 years ago
Love this respond. Fill your life with other people and things. Focus on other friendships.
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4 years ago
Get a new job - it is difficult to move on with him around. This happened to me he left and then I did the memories were just too painful. Going into his office to speak to his replacement, I would feel awkward and sad and the new person would be all happy and friendly and I would just stare blankly.
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4 years ago
Find someone to replace him
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4 years ago
Doing random fuckboys doesn't work I tried that
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4 years ago
Wow. That was always my go to thing. Never failed
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4 years ago
Time to meet someone else I think!
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4 years ago
Don’t block him and don’t contact him. that will cause all kinds of awkward. Just change your settings so you unfollow him and put his messenger in the others folder so you can’t see he’s online.
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4 years ago
If there was a pill for that sort of thing I would taken alot of them over the years
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4 years ago
Hey OP! Sorry to hear that you’re somewhat struggling. Regardless of who was the one that initiated the break up, you can rest assured he too is experiencing some awkward moments and learning how to navigate his interactions with you moving forward.
Like someone mentioned above hide his feed on FB- out of sight out of mind concept. Try not to always be around in the smoko area at the same time. Keep busy with work, friends, fitness, cooking. Don’t be glued to your social media.
Just out of curiosity was this a full on relationship, F buddy or a FWB?
It’s a phase and it will pass. One day at a time.
Good luck
Like someone mentioned above hide his feed on FB- out of sight out of mind concept. Try not to always be around in the smoko area at the same time. Keep busy with work, friends, fitness, cooking. Don’t be glued to your social media.
Just out of curiosity was this a full on relationship, F buddy or a FWB?
It’s a phase and it will pass. One day at a time.
Good luck
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4 years ago
It was an emotional affair, we never physically went any further... We both hit the brakes as it was heading towards physical. I think that's why I'm struggling, we spent alot of time talking about everything and everything. Now it's total radio silence apart from work related stuff while we're at work. He doesn't post to socials alot so that's not too much of a problem other then that I can see he's active etc
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4 years ago
Adjust your privacy settings