I've had 5 kids and it is only the last two who get jealous of each other. They have learning and behaviour disabilities!!! My other 3 are great, no jealousies, hardly ever fought when they were young. But these two have been hard with their fights and jealousies. But I love them and will do anything to help them. There really is not much you can do. Maybe they get those tendencies from your side or your partners??? My last two are from my second marriage, and his family are arseholes and all the sisters hate one another all due to jealousies from growing up. But you have them, so you have to deal, and just let them know you love them the same!!!!

When I was having my second child I had a friend who would constantly tell me how jealous my first would be because I gave her “too much attention” and “too many cuddles”. Baby comes along and she took to the big sister role without issue. Now, 9 years later, she only gets jealous when I let him do things she had to wait a little longer for, like sleep overs. I only wished I wasn’t constantly worried about how she would get jealous of her siblings.