What you make of this?
Answered 5 years ago
My Husband is not the touchy feely type. Does not hold my hand in public and if I go for a hug public or private, he will push me away. He does not want to have sex with me. The other day, when drunk he said that he does not find me attractive and has never found me attractive. He said he basically just wanted a woman who would have babies for him and thought I would make a good mum. He denied it when sober but said it again at a later date. He has said similar things before that I never took seriously. It has been playing on my mind as I have trying to spice up our nonexistant sex life but am wondering if I should even bother. Should I just ignore what he said as he was drunk? How would you react?
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Buy the dress
I have been with a lot of men and never, ever have any of them not wanted affection, sex or my atteniton and they all worked for it.
You are worth so much more! You deserve to be wanted, admired and lusted after.
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By then it will be harder for you to find someone who does love you, so you should make the move now.
For women it gets tougher once they are middle aged.
Doesn't seem to affect the middle aged men the same way, because they usually have assets, so are very attractive to young women..
He will also most likely be planning to make sure you do not get a decent share of the assets built up during the marriage.
I wouldn't be hanging around anyway without a decent sex life.
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He can't spell out out any louder than that.
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Find a guy/girl who finds you irresistible.
There are over a billion people in the world, why waste your time with one who only wants you for your ovaries. Fuck that guy. Fuck him straight to hell.