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You don’t have to like them but you should always be polite and welcoming for your husband’s sake.
If you don't like people, you don't like people. But you'll have to fake it cos it's his kids at the end of the day
I don’t believe you can. Nor should there be any obligation that’ you should. You feel what you feel. However, you can always be kind and polite.
Sometimes I don't like my own kids. You just gotta suck it up and enjoy every minute away from the step kids you can 😂
You only have an obligation to care for the non adult one. It is your home too, tell him they make you feel uncomfortable and you don’t want them coming over. He can meet them in other places to see them. When the daughter turns 18 do the same with her. I’m guessing you see her every other weekend? Can you plan time with your girlfriends or exercising when she is there? You could limit your contact to a couple time a year.