Answered 2 years ago
Before I start I'd like to say that I will ignore nasty or trolling comments. Thank you to anyone that genuinely comments.
I've been left feeling confused with my feelings.
I've been with my boyfriend 10 months. He's on occasion mentioned anal but it's never felt like its a demand. We have sex daily but apart from the occasional change up it's mostly missionary (there is also oral on both sides and occasionally vibrator used on me). Last night we had decided to use a vibrator but the understanding was the vibrator would be used for anal and he would penetrate me vaginally.
But after a bit of warming up the vibrator didn't get used and he penetrated me anally.
I didn't say stop or no so I dont see this as rape.
Have an answer?
My partner is normally really in tune with me and can tell by how I tense or something if it's hurting and will stop and check with me before continuing but sometimes when his close he will move slightly and it can hurt but if I don't say anything he will not pay attention and just go hard until his finished..
Have a talk with him, he might feel horrified that he has made you feel this way but if you don't let him know he might try again thinking you liked it?
So I guess what I'm asking for advice on is should I be concerned that he didn't consider how it was feeling for me?
I would have probably continued but maybe in a different more comfortable, slow position.
He's 99% of the time a very considerate, caring and loving partner in and out of bed.
Did he just get caught up in the moment?