View other questions
I know my marriage has toxic elements to it. I try to gently deal with them as we go, but subtly, as I dislike confronta
Answered 4 years ago
I know my marriage has toxic elements to it. I try to gently deal with them as we go, but subtly, as I dislike confrontation and am only just finding my worth as a human. My question is, what red flags make you immediately end a relationship?
For example, apparently I'm willing to put up with all sorts of abuse but if he were to physically strike me, I KNOW I'd be leaving asap. Yet I've overlooked other forms of abuse and swept them under the rug.
Where is your breaking point?
Have an answer?
This question has been closed and is no longer accepting answers.
Answers
An unexpected error has occurred, please try again shortly.
ANSWER
4 years ago
Physical violence, immediately. Emotional abuse, or financial abuse, once I see a pattern of it, and know it is definitely happening.
I think personally everyone needs to read up on domestic abuse, so they are aware of what constitutes abuse; the patterns and characteristics of it. And this includes both sexes.
It is just too easy to hang around for far longer than is safe, while you learn about it the hard way, and years of your life are wasted.
People look back after leaving a relationship and so often wish they had left years earlier.
I think personally everyone needs to read up on domestic abuse, so they are aware of what constitutes abuse; the patterns and characteristics of it. And this includes both sexes.
It is just too easy to hang around for far longer than is safe, while you learn about it the hard way, and years of your life are wasted.
People look back after leaving a relationship and so often wish they had left years earlier.