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How to help guy have a big finish when giving a BJ

Answered 2 months ago

Hi, can I please ask for some BJ tips?

I'm finding hubby not really having a great orgasm when I suck him off, when he finishes he is really sensitive and if I am still sucking or using my hand it seems to ruin it and not be pleasurable... if that makes sense?

It is starting to become a "thing" and he finds it hard to enjoy now...

How do you help your guys finish so it feels good for them? I would love to really make him blow his load bigtime!

Appreciate any tips!

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2 months ago
I like to have a wind up and back off. Play around with balls and ass but never the same thing all the time. And milk that cock all the way, not cum and done but really pull it all out.
My man loves it

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3 months ago
Sometimes I find when my husband is close he will thrust into my mouth as I just keep it open. He has control over the motion and enjoys his orgasm. It also helps me for next time as I can gauge what he likes towards the end.
I have had him grab my hair and I let him guide my head, sometimes I need to slow down other times he wants it a bit quicker. My husband gets sensitive (as our clit does) so I just let him cum and slowly lick his dick after he finishes just to let him enjoy the moment.

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5 months ago
you know the best thing to do? in my opinion that is, is to put your finger in his bum?! yes stick it up his arse! he will love it and you will blow his mind

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5 months ago
you know the best thing to do? in my opinion that is, is to put your finger in his bum?! yes stick it up his arse! he will love it and you will blow his mind

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5 months ago
Don't give them out so often? Then he can learn to appreciate it when you grace him with putting his dick and balls in your mouth.

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5 months ago
Yeah ok, or alternatively we try and have a positive relationship and do what we can to make each other happy... Doesnt have to turn into a battle.

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5 months ago
Lick his sss just before he blows

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5 months ago
Yep definitely lick his (clean) ass hole....you will blow his mind. Guaranteed. 🤯

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5 months ago
Not our thing

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5 months ago
Let him blow over your boobs? As in he tells you when he's ready, he holds his own dick and blows his load on your chest. Then he's in control of how much touch/movement etc there is at that point. Only if it appeals to you too though.

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5 months ago
Yeah I think this might be what we need to do.

Oddly enough, I gave him a handjob the other day and he said it was amazing - just the timing and angle was right.

Bloody hell, shouldnt be this hard! (no pun intended...)