I like to have a wind up and back off. Play around with balls and ass but never the same thing all the time. And milk that cock all the way, not cum and done but really pull it all out.
My man loves it

Sometimes I find when my husband is close he will thrust into my mouth as I just keep it open. He has control over the motion and enjoys his orgasm. It also helps me for next time as I can gauge what he likes towards the end.
I have had him grab my hair and I let him guide my head, sometimes I need to slow down other times he wants it a bit quicker. My husband gets sensitive (as our clit does) so I just let him cum and slowly lick his dick after he finishes just to let him enjoy the moment.

you know the best thing to do? in my opinion that is, is to put your finger in his bum?! yes stick it up his arse! he will love it and you will blow his mind

you know the best thing to do? in my opinion that is, is to put your finger in his bum?! yes stick it up his arse! he will love it and you will blow his mind

Don't give them out so often? Then he can learn to appreciate it when you grace him with putting his dick and balls in your mouth.

Lick his sss just before he blows

Let him blow over your boobs? As in he tells you when he's ready, he holds his own dick and blows his load on your chest. Then he's in control of how much touch/movement etc there is at that point. Only if it appeals to you too though.