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For me it's the intimacy more than the sex itself. We do it 4 or 5 times a week. He wants more, I want less so this is the meeting point for us. We're always very touchy and affectionate with each other which we both like. I do feel pressured sometimes to have sex more but he accepts a firm no. He would never push it any further than that
Two times a day with kids and work seems really unrealistic to me . Sex daily even seems unrealistic ! You’re not a sex doll for his pleasure only. Good luck mama
Be very careful, mismatched sex drive is one of the key reason men turn to porn, sex chat rooms and infidelity. You shouldn't have to force yourself to have sex with him though. Could you maybe give him oral or similar so he gets what he's wanting without having to go all the way?
Start having and demanding sex 3 times a day, when he is the most tired and see if he can keep up and then complain that he doesn't love you lol
I guarantee none if his mates are having sex every day.Ask friends how often they have sex. He think they want to do it that much but the truth is he would have trouble keeping it up.
While I personally think twice a day is maybe unreasonable if you're both busy, but the dressing up in lingerie part? I wonder what that's about!
Personally for me it's important to have that physical connection and intimacy. For example I have had sex about 5 times over 2019 and felt like I had to beg for it each time, and because of this I am really unhappy with my relationship and I feel like I've lost interest in my husband too. If he moved out tomorrow id honestly be like mehhhh.
2x a week seems healthy! Maybe he is craving affection? Suggest 1 night a week where you cuddle on the couch with a movie etc. If it's the other side and he just wants to use you for a hole then see ya!
I don’t think his request is unreasonable. I would love to wear lingerie but my husband doesn’t care either way, it would be nice to have someone appreciate the extra effort and buy it for me. Sex every day is ok maybe twice on weekends ?
We usually have sex every 2nd night and sometimes evwry night. But if we have had a falling out and dont have it flr aweek or so then we go at it 2 or 3 timea a day to make up for lost time. Thats with 3 kids.
If like it to be. Bit sadly I just have zero sex drive. We have sex maybe once a fortnight and it obligatory, which isn’t great.
Twice a day seems a lot, I take a while to reach orgasim so it would be hard for us to do that and I'm not one for a wham bam thank you mam- if there's nothing in it for me I feel used. I would love if my husband would buy me lingerie, I crave more passion in our sex but still think I twice a week is pretty good.
I would love 2 times a week but we are about once every 2nd month. I’m really not sure how to compromise on sex when both people need to want it.