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2 or 3 dates in. This isnt sex and the city. Who wants to be with someone who is happy to sleep with you and simultaneously sniff around to see if they can find anything better? If he won't say you're in a relationship after 6months he's never going to.
I think if you want a committed relationship, then you need to be honest about what you Want, two people can't work if they aren't on the same page. You might be really into him, but at the end of the day if he doesn't want to be committed to you, he's probably not the one. Good luck to you whatever you choose, hopefully it works out
I read commitment here as meaning move in together or get engaged. Did you just mean become exclusive / boyfriend-girlfriend? In which case, yeah 2 months or several dates.
But moving in or getting engaged? A year or two.
You don’t even need to time the amount of dates to be exclusive, but I think 2-3 months and 5-10 dates was about my limit. If he’s unsure 6 months later it doesn’t sound promising sorry to say :(
He is using you for sex. I hate to be so blunt but after 6 months ymthings should be more official. Run while you can, you deserve better
I don’t know the circumstances but it doesn’t sound amazing no
Way too long.
Couple weeks. Maybe a month at most. I wouldn't go on a second date with anyone who wasnt willing to only see me exclusively yet.
Pleasure is so much reduced too, for most people.
Commitment as in exclusive? Unless it was a FWB set up I would be expecting to be exclusive as soon as becoming romantically involved. With my partner that was first date 🍸🍺💏🍆🍑👉👌👍😂
You be adults and have a discussion about it. Bring it up, see what he says!
I used to be this way, less hassles, no ‘relationship ‘ dramas. Going with the flow is what suited me. No one complaining if I buggered off with girlfriends for a week of beach & booze. Didn’t have to do family events and all that shit.
I never lied to any of them, never accepted phone calls from one when with another.
I was never out looking for something better, I had no intention of settling down.
Depends on the circumstances - if they are sorting out a divorce and custody arrangement or if I am, if we are young and establishing ourselves, etc.
In my position of being reasonably secure and established and around 40, I'd give him until a year if we were still having fun - then decide if he'd be a better friends with benefits or just friend.