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Husband searching bestiality porn

So last night, I went to bed before my husband. I came out to get my phone charger and found him sitting in the dark in our study, looking at something on the computer. When I spoke to him, he jumped and turned everything off immediately, looking like a deer caught in the headlights. Naturally I grew suspicious and thought he's got something to hide, so yes I snooped. I just had a gut feeling something wasn't right. Well, I looked at his browsing history and found.....bestiality videos and searches. Ummm...wtf do I do with that? I'm thankful he's not cheating and am not angry about it, just REALLY freaked out!!! Should I ask him about it or not? Obviously this is not a fantasy I am willing to fulfil as it is so wrong in so many ways!!

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I would spend the rest of my life in prison if people assumed I did everything I watched or googled

 Oh did you know that a human remains conscious for about 4 seconds after their head is cut off
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 What the actual f**k
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I'd say he's just curious. If it really bothers you you could bring it up and ask if he gets off on it or he was just curious. Internet is very tempting, you can find all sorts of weird shit on it. I don't think it's that big of a deal.

 I am starting to think this too. Thank you.
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Could it just be curious to see what the f**k people do?

My google searches would be pretty embarassing

 It could be, but I just don't know.
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 If he was searching something involving children you wouldn't say he was curious. Animals are still innocent creatures who CANNOT consent, and it's illegal in most countries. I'd lose my Shit
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Is the OP still around? What ever came of this???

 I left him
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 For sure this person is the OP ^ not 🙄
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try anal

 whoever said this is right
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I forgot to add I have found this once before, he told me he was looking up artificial insemination bulls (he is a dairy farmer and does his own AI). It is possible that it came up with the wrong thing as he is hopeless with words and can't spell for shit. But this time he's actually typed the search "dog penis in girl" in himself. I know it was him because as I said, he's a terrible speller and I recognised his way of spelling.

 There’s your answer.... it’s not a one off so not just curious! Freaken gross 🤨
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 Yeah, gross, I don't care if I'm judgey, that's totally illegal anyway lol. I say ask him. But first know how you're going to react if he says that's what turns him on.
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It's ok I wouldn't worry too much, he's probably just curious as to what some people do, but if you see him heading out one night while everyone's asleep then you'd better hope the chickens and goats are safe 😂

Nothing at all to be concerned about.
Human nature to be inquisitive.
If you start finding his horses shoes at the front door , then bring it up with him :}

Ok it depends. It could be curiosity however in saying that it's illegal. I'm surprised he didn't receive a site warning saying something along the lines of it being illegal etc.
I wouldn't run, but I'd be honest and ask the same of him. If he says that it's a fetish then maybe re-evaluate. I know it's nerve wracking but you need to be honest and so does he.
I'd also ask him not to search that stuff on the home computer

 It's not illegal the act is illegal watching it is not
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 I had a friend who was charged for having it on his phone. I'm not sure if he shared it as well, but definitely charged with having bestiality on his phone. But I don't care. No excuses, it's not a healthy fantasy, animals can't consent.
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 actually beastiality is legal in 13 states, and it’s legal to watch zoophilia in almost every state/country. It’s still quite taboo and gross even but appears to be quite a common fantasy.
I have several porn genres I watch but get grossed out at the thought of preforming so it’s perfectly ok and sane for him to fantasize and not wish to act on that fantasy. Even if he does wish to act, he’s an adult and that’s his own personal desire. He clearly doesn’t feel comfortable with his zoophilia fantasy or comfortable talking to his wife about it so don’t bring it up and make things weird or make him feel gross for watching it. As long as he’s not hurting anyone or anything who cares what he watches?

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