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Do you/your husband wear weddings rings? If not how come


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I don't. I'm sure people will comment shit about a Greek sugar daddy here but my rings are so expensive. I have a 2ct solid princess cut that sits quite high and my band is full of diamonds so I don't wear them to work (child care) and then honestly I just forget to put them on haha

 I had this problem, so I got a plain gold band for every day wear- feel funny not wearing one
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 You rings are so good you don't want to wear them....seems legit.
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 Correction, I don't wear them to work. As I said it sits quite high and I run a nursery so I don't want to cut them with it. It happened with my own child and then I just forget to put them on most of the time. I don't need to wear them to know I'm married. It ain't about the rings.
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 2 carats and working in child care
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 Where did I say that I paid for my own ring?? 😂😂😂 Bi****s be so jealous.
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My husband wears his all the time, I can't wear mine all the time b cause of eczema flare-ups

 Same here. But it’s only just started happening to me
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Yes both of us do always with the exception of when we are handling raw meat.

No because we're both sleeping with other people- we don't acknowledge this though

 So you have proof he has been sleeping around? Why not just have an open relationship?
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 Scandalous! 😱
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My husband cheated on me. We had a huge fight and I threw our rings in the backyard. A crow came and took his lol. We stayed together and 15 years later my house got broken into and my ring was stolen ( I couldn’t wear it at work). So no, we don’t wear rings.

 My husband has thrown so many away I now only buy the cheap stainless steel from Michael hill or Prius’s
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My husband does his

I lost 2 and one broke.
So never replaced them.

 It that a sign?
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 That I shouldn’t wear jewellery? Yes I headed it for years, tried to ignore it for wedding rings but it won me over for good.

Back to no jewellery for me. It gets in the way of life.

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We don’t, but we never exchanged them in the first place.. I don’t know what it is, but I have never liked the idea of rings, let alone marriage rings.

 How closely they resemble shackles (albeit teeny tiny ones for your finger)?
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I wear my wedding band daily, but not the engagement ring because it just gets in the way. It’s more for special occasions . My husband has a wedding ring but never wears it because he hates how they feel. He got our children’s initials tattooed liked a band around his ring finger instead

We don’t wear them - we find them uncomfortable

 What monogamy?
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No as I don’t fit it anymore. He doesn’t because of his work, could de-glove his finger.

 What does he do?
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Husband all the time, I take mine off to sleep and then forget to put them back on a lot 🤣

Both of us all the time since our wedding day 11 years ago.

 11 years here too!
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I wear mine always. Unless I'm making meatloaf. My husband can't wear one at work due to safety concerns. And he was forever losing the one I gave him at our wedding. So he's since gotten a tattoo on that finger of the date we were married. F**k that sounds bogan. Ya know what, f**k it, we're bogans.

 That is actually very sweet
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 I have our wedding date tattood inside my ring finger and I love it!!! Still. 9 years later. Just annoying cos it wears off.
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