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Why can I not stop thinking about sex?

I think about it all the time. I think about what I want my husband to do to me, I pester him every night, I read erotic stories. What is wrong with me. I swear my panties are always wet. It's not normal is it...
And to the toll who always comments, bitch away coz I'm just going to ignore you and not reply to you.


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Been like this since I was a teenager. 30 now and it's just gotten worse

I’m 46 same thing.

 ^Ok so I’m normal then 😊
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I swear I just had this same conversation the other day. I’m 33 and I think it’s hormone related. I feel like it’s going to ruin my relationship. I almost want to go on antidepressants to lower my drive so I’m thinking about it.

 I just commented above. It did ruin my sex life with my husband (you would think it would be the reverse). Antidepressants help with the obsessive thoughts. I wish I had tried that before I ended up in an affair. I’m mostly happy with my situation now but there are times when I wish I could have a sexual relationship with my husband again but we are now too far gone.
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See a therapist

 If it’s a problem for you then I recommend seeing a councillor too. My sex addiction lead to porn then an affair. Pretty much it was an outlet for my anxiety. I’m having marriage problems too but we are now working on our friendship. I’m also on antidepressants which helped to stop the obsessive thoughts.
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OMG. This is me at the moment. Normally, my sex drive is quite low and I don’t care if sex is a monthly thing. But for the last couple of months I just want hubby’s c**k all the time. Don’t know what the change is but I just wanna f*k f*k f*k. My vibrator has been getting a good work out too.

 So glad I'm not the only one. Thank you 😘
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 Same. My sex drive has never been anything exciting, could happily go weeks with nothing, but the last twelve months, I also do not know what the change is/was but now cannot get enough. I am 49 been married for 25 years and having the best sex ... been going at it like teenagers left alone for the first time!
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Enjoy it while it's last ladies 👍

 I'm 36yrs old. Everyone around my age is telling me I have an addiction coz is not normal at my age.
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