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I'm pregnant with my 7th child and no one is happy for me.... I'm sick of being told to 'get a tv'.... What's wrong with having a big family these days?


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Life is short and children are our future generation the only thing left in this world that is part of us . And thank god these selfish stupid ignorant people that aren’t going to have any . Won’t leave selfish ignorant spawn of hate in this world .

Do you work or do you use government assistance that will have a lot to do with it

 Why is this anyone’s business? Yeah it does have a lot to do with it but it’s not something you can or should be asking.
There should be genuine happiness for someone expecting a child!

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I lost my 6th and having my 7th people always have negative things to say girl F#×% em as long as you take care of them no one else matters. #BigFamilys I'm from the south and that's just what we believe in I personally make date nights for each child where we just get 1 on 1 time its great

Congratulations! The only people that really matter here are yourself and your husband/partner. As long as you are happy nothing else matters. Try not to dwell on people's rude comments and enjoy your precious little one :)

It used to be the norm once

 It was kind of a neccessity before vaccines when a high percentage of children died before adulthood, or got packed off to war etc We don't live in the same society. Having kids is expensive. I don't care how many kids you have as long as you can afford to look after them and care for them properly (preferably without leaching off our tax dollars). I would only judge you if you were treating the oldest ones like nannies and had them changing nappies and wiping bums etc. No brother/sister should have to do that.
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 Not to mention contraception or lack thereof 😝
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I was one of six and loved it we are still close today a lot of people are jealous me because we are best friends. It's not without hardship my only advice would be not to rely on the older ones too much as it can strain sibling relationships (I was oldest and felt like I'd already had kids when I was a teen due to the responsibility on me)

 I should add never a dull moment and plently of birthday cake
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Congratulations on your 7th pregnancy!!!
Big families are awesome. I'm one of 5, we have 15 kids between us, my brother has 5 under 5, (including twins). We love it!!!

how many dads ?

 Lol!! And what has mum contributed to society.
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 6 awesome kids and another to come, that is what
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Good for you and congratulations. As long as you are providing for the children who cares.

I am in awe of anyone who has 7 children, Im exhausted with 3! (congrats)

Congratulations! My mother is one of 9 and it is awesome to be a part of such a big family. Such a big support network. Your kids and grandkids will thank you. X

Congratulations how awesome for your family why a lucky bub to be born the baby with so many big brothers and sisters to live on them. Xx

Don't let them or your pregnancy hormones get the better of you <3