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I can’t really give you any advice but I can tell you what my experience was like. My parents split up when I was 6. He was a violent alcoholic and it was the best decision for us all. I last saw him 30 years ago, he passed away 9 years ago. I can’t say I missed out on anything by not having him around. My mum was a really good mother and made sure I was well taken care of. I also had my grandparents near by so my grandfather stepped in as a male role model. It didn’t bother me that he wasn’t around, I remember what it was like living with him,
Thank you. Yes I agree they should have positive male role models. Her brother and father have both stepped in and my hubby will also. We are basically sisters.
Having your dad is so important. I needed mine but he died. I made shit decisions. I needed protecting. I needed my dad to help me grow. I still suffer to this day.
Encourage your friend to keep her daughters father involved as much as possible. Not having my father around for 10 years effected me greatly, I didn’t realise it till I started dating my partner.. I depended on him a lot to make me happy and love me that way I wanted.
Had to take a step back to realise what I was doing and took time for me to understand why I was like that.
You are a great friend, continue doing what you are doing!
Not me personally but my hubby. He grew up without a mother. She was a drug addict and left when he was a baby. He is such a wonderful man but I would be lying if I said it hasn't affected him. Especially now since we have children he doesn't understand how his mum couldn't love her children. It hasn't affected him too much but I know it gets to him sometimes.