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Blow jobs

Only given a few & no idea what I’m doing. Teach me ladies!

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This is why I am happy being single

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 Because u don’t wanna learn how to blow a guy? 🤔
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 😂😂 I’ve given more blow jobs single than I ever have in a relationship
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 Ur original comment still doesn’t make sense tho
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 Amen
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If you can teach me how to give a handjob I will teach you how to do oral lol

 Handjobs are easy. Get a firm, but not tight, grip and work up to faster and faster. Use lube if you can. Make sure you’re stroking the whole of the shaft.
And like with the oral... don’t be shy to play with his balls.

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 I will have to remember the lube, for oral I start off slow and suck the tip, whirling my tongue round and round and do this as I go down his shaft I also suck deeply and hold it tight before moving my mouth up and down and then I will stop when he is close and repeat til my jaw feels.like it going to drop off
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How old are you people

 Old enough to wanna have fun
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Don't be afraid to ask what feels good for him, and most of all make sure that you are enjoying it too!

If he is not circumcised don't forget to pull the foreskin right back to keep the head exposed. This will let you use the foreskin to make it easier to pump up and down the shaft while you are concentrating on the head with your mouth.

Also, some uncircumcised guys I have been with really liked it when I held the skin back quite firmly at the base of their penis while using my mouth, rather than using the spare skin to roll up and down the shaft. They said it gave them a totally different sensation.

 He’s uncircumcised & thinking of ur comment & how much seems to be involved makes me think this is just too hard & gross
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 Uncircumcised is not "gross" as long as he is clean. I am sure you have more folds between your legs than he has on his penis. Even though I prefer a guy to be circumcised it's still great giving a blow job to a guy with a foreskin.
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 😂😂
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Do people like it? LOL I know I will be slaughtered for this surely but I really don't enjoy it LOL

 Not sure why you would be slaughtered, doesn’t effect us if you like it or not.
I love it. I love everything about it.

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 No I don’t, but my hubby always gives oral & I just cant. So I feel bad & want to start
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 Yep love it
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 We are the opposite he never does it to me and I do it every time we are intimate.
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For me it's not about shoving it deep in my mouth like a crazy person going up and down. I hold the shaft firmly, work my hand around it. And suck the tip. My husband will come so much quicker from that!!b

 This..1000%( guy here)
Hand works the shaft...lips/sucking the tip.
Balls very sensitive play gently if he likes.

When it comes to him returning the favour let him know what/how you want it during will hopefully let you enjoy the pleasures.
IMO if both trim/shave makes navigating sooo much easier.

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 How do I work the shaft as well as lick the tip? I imagine my head would be in the way 🤷‍♀️
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 *^Hand works the shaft
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 ^ in total control of depth with this technique.
Deep throat/fu****g is a whole other oral experience more male dominated v achieving faster climax as described above.

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 I gave my husband BJ's all the time for years, like 1-3 a week. I've stopped giving BJ's now, l'm sick of waiting for him to return the oral, maybe once a year. Even then he doesn't shave so it's scratchy (& yes I'm clean & I shaven). I'm over the double standard.
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 ^Well i did say hopefully you would get to enjoy the returned favour.....
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A lot of spitting (to make it wet) and using your hand while sucking at the same time 😝 thank me later

Trick to taking it all in is to “swallow” as you suck (imagine eating or drinking, do that swallowing motion). Make sure you have enough saliva to lube him up. Either spit on his c**k or lick/kiss down it so it’s all wet and lubed up. Don’t be afraid to use your tongue, if you need a break, lick the head of his penis. Get your hands involved. Listen to his body, if he’s enjoying it you should be able to tell.

And FFS don’t forget the balls!!!!!!

 I pretend I'm a vacuum cleaner
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 What do I do with his balls??? 😱
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 Then when he is about to cum concentrate on the tip cover the cum hole with your tongue and lick it up from there.
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 It depends on what he likes when it comes to his balls. Suck, lick, cusp, pull, stroke or a combination of all of that.
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