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Serve messy sandwiches all the time
Stop shaving ur bikini line and tell him you'll shave when he does
Oh yes my hubby has had one for 5yr. I explained when he first started growing it have never bn attracted to a man with a beard and he keeping his will only turn me off him... He's kept for 5yr. I feel like my feelings dnt count. Am I bn selfish but truth is I now do not fancy him. 1 bit and I'm not wanting to kiss him. Or out so fair to say it's not my fault if things are totally dead is it.
Shit did I write this while I was asleep? I must have. Because this is my situation as well. Honey, I hate to say this but the only thing to do is tell him how you feel, and wait. He'll be sick of it soon enough and shave it off. At least that's what I hope will happen. We've made it past hobo now and are between sea captain and wizard. I'm sure it'll end soon. Please God?
When my husband gets lazy and starts growing a beard I just don't let him kiss me until it's gone
This is my issue!! and it's tending to be destructive to our relationship -- can't stand the mustache at all, it grosses me out for reasons to hard to explain, and the beard he just lets grow without realizing how gross it gets under his chin and down his neck... I totally liked and related to the description of one guy's growths being "past hobo now and are between sea captain and wizard," but I know it's hurting his feelings when I suggest stricter maintenance; just can't kiss that face anymore, and that's where the destructive element comes in!
Buy him one of those fancy beard grooming kits and make a big deal about how bohemian he will look and it will all be fantastic. He will either hate the idea of being a hipster and shabe it or will actually groom it so you will sort of win either way lol. Reverse psychology, that's what I would try
Where did caring how your spouse feels ho out the window. I am in the same boat as you. My husbands beard looks like santa clause and it ages him by 10 plus years. My response to him refusing to shave is no sex....period. It feels like an animal has taken a home on his face and I dont mate with animals. Eventually he will shave.
My husband grows a beard a few times a year and i barely kiss him when he has it. After a few weeks he misses me and shaves it 😂 I don't mind fairly long stubble but once he trims his mustache it is so spikey and hurts
Some men have soft beards and a natural space around full lips. Some have a tough wiry beard, little space around lips and thin lips. The latter is painful, uncomfortable and for some women, rash-producing. It’s sad if the husband can’t take into account the wife’s feelings. And yes, wet is gross. Try kissing a wet dish brush.
Haha my partner has a beard and goatee. I love it! When he does shave it off, it makes him look like hes got a baby face! I don't complain about it though, its his face/hair he can do what he likes with it. Just the same as me, he can tell me how he likes my hair but ultimately the decision is up to me.
You could always get one of his work makes to tell him he needs to tidy it up cos he looks stupid lol maybe he'll tidy it up to impress them
Part of being in a fruitful marriage is to care for yourself and care for your partner and if you love her. What's the big deal, why cant you shave. Women shave for men and try to please their husbands in MANY ways. ... even doing things they dont particularly enjoy.... yet they do anything to please man... and care for him... and he cant shave??? That's just nasty... disgusting to hear a man cant simply shave for his wife.
Mine has beard and a mustache. He shaved them off a few years ago and I told him if he ever did it again I would leave. Men with facial hair are sexy as f**k.