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Omg get out NOW before our law sees you both as defacto and makes everything legal.
He won’t ever change, there is no rationalising this type of behaviour. I’ve seen it, been through it, there is absolutely no sugar coating it.
Have some pride. Call it in. Tell him top pay up or f**k off.
Each contribute 50% to a share account.
Your so is my so.
I'm pretty sure we're being taken advantage of and used. We do all the work, pay all the bills, they just use use use and only stick around for free meal ticket.
He needs to pay up or get out!
I made mine sell half his shit to pay for things or get out of my house. I'm really resenting him and don't feel like he cares about anyone but himself
I am terrible with money so even though I earn a lot and not spend much I just have it stockpiling. It would piss me off if I had to support a sponge. My husband covers everything and when my money gets to a significant sum I transfer some to him for bills and the rest on the house. We don’t deprive each other that is financial abuse and not on. Your SO doesn’t respect you this is a deal breaker.
Been through this. It never improves.
Once financially sneaky, always financially sneaky and deceptive.
Being with men like this has cost me many thousands. And probably hundreds of thousands if I count what assets I could have built up with that money.
Get out now before he bleeds you dry and you lose half your assets in a split up.
Even if you have a financial cohabitation agreement it costs you a fortune to defend it in court when you split.
I am the op last year, I found a receipt for 5000 dollars again he claimed he had 100dollars and that he just found a receipt and put it in his pocket .. lies. Who even does that?! With detective work I realized he had been stashing that cash aside while I broke my back to try and manage bills! When I confronted him he said you want everything from me and stormed out!