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Lol my husband is my sole source of money. So when we're out, it's whoevers shout that's holding his card at the time. Since that's usually me, people tend to think I'm super generous hahaha. Nope. It feels weird when I have to buy him a gift though. Because he's paying for it. But then I think that he didn't put the emotional labour into choosing the gift, and how much would he have to pay a personal assistant/personal shopper to do this. Then it's less weird.
We tend to do gifts as things each other need/want that dont fit into the weekly budget
I have my husbands bank card as i pay all the bills and everything however if we go out i have to give him hos cars back so he can be seen the ine doing the paying lol think he thinks he is losing hos manhood if i was to pay. Although he is getting over that stage now after 16 years of being together