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Not sure who the father is

I’m pregnant and my husband might not be the father. We had a threesome with one of his friends and it was around the time that I would have conceived. How do we tell my family my husband might not be the father?


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Simple. DONT TELL THEM. Unless this child may have some obvious differences ie skin colour etc. there is no point telling them. Once the child is born do a DNA test if you feel you need to. But I wouldn’t be telling anyone unless I knew for sure.

 What she said!!!
I'm assuming your husband knows??

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