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Oh my god....
I don't even know what to say to this...I understand you reaction, but did you clearly state that you're the childs mother and that you're taking her home for fear of her safety? She was probably freaking out because she saw some random women in her house taking her 'step-child'.
But if she knew who you were, then by all means I don't understand the police's reasoning? If she's in danger and lacking parental supervision/decent living conditions then of course you have the right to take her! Maybe next time you pick her up (if you let her visit again), take photos of all the evidence you see right then and there, then take them to court. They won't ever get to have unsupervised visits again...
You did technically assault her there was no need to throw anything at her at all. You are not allowed to enter the house despite the door being open. You should have phoned the police!
Don't take your kid back. He sounds too caught up in.life to bother fighting about it
He doesn't want to take care of her. I almost cried reading this. I do understand your reaction .. It is hard to remain calm. I hate screaming or being angry in front of my kid. Your daughter must have been upset too.
I assume she had a terrible nappy rash too. She's old enough to be toilet trained so that's one less responsibility for dad if you allow her over there again. Which I don't think u will. That is neglect thru n thru on his behalf.
I have friends that leave babies (shit brand) nappy on all day so they can save money to buy their ice... I've never seen him with a clear bum.. People disgust me.
My ex broke in to my house in the middle of the night and just took our baby out of her cot to spite me, he did not get in an ounce of trouble because we had no custody arrangements.
My mum did the similar thing, sort of, my father kept me instead of returning me because my mother was neglectful, however he had to work so he left me at his house with his girlfriend now my step mother they had been together for 2 years at this stage. My mum broke in to the house, as it was all locked, and took me, the police were called and they told my step mum, as my mother she had a right to take me and dads gf had no right to say or do anything. But that was 20 odd years ago.
Oh gosh! I would have reacted the same way! I'm hoping you get full custody and she's never left in that situation again.
How awful, sounds like your daughter would be better off not visiting dad. He obviously doesn't care about taking care of her. I probably would have done more than just throw a pillow at the new gf. Bit*h would have been sporting a busted lip.