Got an Answer?
Have you talked to him? My marriage really suffered when my husband worked away. I resented that he was away all week and we he came home did not help around the house. I work and got sick of doing everything. I told him the truth that I felt taken for granted. I told him every day I fight off unwanted attention from good looking male colleagues who try to steal me away from him and that I only stay with him because we have been married 20 plus years and that I still love him but I question whether he loves me. I need him to show me he loves me by helping with our children, our house and being attentive to me otherwise I might not fight off the next guy who takes an interest and these men are in better shape than him.
Without knowing you or your situation, if you're not sure then I'd say there is still a chance. What makes you feel like it could be over?
In the end its irrelevant if I believe him. There has always been something since we met, innapropriate texts, affairs or just trust in general. Im exhausted
If you are going to leave it is better you do it now, while you are young and attractive enough to start again.
So often unfaithful men desert their wives for a younger model when the wife is middle aged and going to have a harder time finding someone else.
Thank you all for your replies. He came home last night from work, we talked, its still a bit tense but will see how we go. Its a massive trust issue on my part. He finishes working away next week so things will hopefully improve
ewww why would you not put a condom in the bin... unless it’s at her house!