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Pretty sure no-one can stop you. Think I saw your ex’s thread on here before - “Do I have to listen to my ex’s rules”.
Of course you can tell him. Whether he'll listen or follow the directions is a totally different matter.
Honestly, it depends on how much he has them. My ex only has our kids every second weekend and really only from Fri evening to Sunday morning and I know for a fact he is not always feeding them the best food. But since it is only every second weekend, I let it slide because I don't feel it's a huge deal. If, however in a situation, children are staying with the other parent more regularly and for longer stretches of time, I would be ensuring the children are eating healthy as that is in the children's best interest and crucial for their wellbeing. You do not want to be responsible for your child developing type 2 diabetes or some other illness.
Absolutely no way would I be sending food, though. I would happily make a list of suggestions, but the preparation of food along with every other aspect if the children's care is the responsibility of the parent who has the child/children at the time!
No, but if you are sick of him feeding them junk and letting you deal with the consequences I suggested buying bags of lollies just before the kids go to dad's. Make sure there are lots of red and green jubes. The trick it's to make sure they have eaten enough to go mad, but still have a bag full, maximize the shit storm at dads, especially if he tries to take the lollies.
Yes write a list, but make sure you include recipes.