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Never been in this situation
But if she's asking to see them then she's pretty much saying I do care, I do love them, I do miss them.
Baby steps do small 2-3 hr unsupervised visits. Increase if you feel kids are happy and willing to continue seeing mum.
If kids are old enough they will come back and report suspicious behaviour or company thst she keeps. Send chrPo phone with them for dad to be able to touch base once during visits. Good luck
You could trial un supervised ? For a few months but state that if she is in the presence of drugs or anyone doing drugs then she breachimg her right to stay un supervised?
maybe put in some rules and restrictions?
have a few hours at a time - increasing the time if it all goes well with no problems ??
I had a similar problem but my childs father was on drugs himself - and now his clean and he has always been a great dad when he has our child just made some stupid decisions .... everyone deserve a change especially if the kids are wanting to spend time with their mum
Very difficult situation. Did their mum take drugs?