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Valentine's day is a load of crap pushed by the retail industry.
If you really get upset over a superficial think like that then you got problems.
He's spending his life with you, isn't that good enough? Grow up.
Clearly the day is important to you, and it’s a shame he doesn’t recognise that and make an effort. However, you said he is great as a husband and as a father so you might just have to count your blessings and let this go. After 15 years, its a safe bet that it isn’t going to happen. And if it’s does, it will be a pleasant surprise for you. No expectations means no disappointment.
Valentine’s Day is one of the oldest holidays in the world starting back when the romans around.. I feel like the people who find it rubbish and have so much hatred for it are just some sad lonely people.
Just lighten up even if you are single treat yourself.
My husband is like this. His idea of romance is to kiss my neck while he gropes me when I'm trying to wash the damn dishes. Like thanks hubs, your sexual assault is omg so fu****g much sweet. Cos I wake up before dawn to wait on you hand and foot and to all but wipe the arse of all 6 members of this family, just so you can sweep in and roughly grab at my vagina. Yeah, that TOTALLY puts me in the mood.
Romance? Huh, I wonder what that is!
Some people think Valentine’s Day is bullshit, me included. I wouldn’t worry too much about it if he’s a good bloke every other day of the year.
Single mum here my kids took me to dinner 😍
I need to be a lesbian. I'll romance the shit out of you! I'll buy you flowers every pay day, chocolates once a month, and valentines day would involve some candles and flowers and a nice dinner with some light music. You bet your a*s I'd romance you!
Sadly, I love the doodle too much to go lesbian. And you're already in a relationship. Maybe in another life.
I can understand how you would be feeling really hurt given you have expressed how important this day is to you. What does he respond with when you talk to him about it? Does he dismiss you? What did you get him as a present/gift?
Hubby and I discuss in advance whether we want to celebrate each year. For all celebrations including Christmas! . Haha this year we are doing a wonderful date out (we have two kids under 2). Lunch first, then home to feed baby, then out to the movies. We both enjoy quality time together so we are really excited. No cards, we just wished each other happy Valentine’s Day. We are both looking forward to our date to tomorrow.
Just wondering if you got him something for Valentine's?
My partners idea of a valentines day present was putting on his 10 inch strap on, not even joking
We were too tired for Valentine's day this year. He worked the day & I worked the Thursday night. That's ok though cause I didn't care this year either. It's just a day I know we have a whole lifetime together full of of great memories.
Valentines Day is a crock. Don’t expect him to feel the way you do about the silly, forced day. He’s a great guy, just because Hallmark have told you it should be something special doesn’t mean it should. Let it go.
I got maccas, how romantic
I think Valentine's Day is stupid, but when I was younger my ex never used to do anything either and I kinda felt like he was hinting that he didn't give a crap about me enough to acknowledge I was his girlfriend.
Now I'm older tho, my partner gets me things and I think if I wanted it I wouldve got it myself. And it puts pressure on me to get something for him now too. I'm still grateful but it's just another day, not like a birthday or Xmas or anniversary