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So basically you’re doing a 3 man job with 2 people? add 2 kids to the mix of course you’re going to feel the pressure and turn into Miss Grumpy pants.
Keep hiring till you find the perfect fit for your company requirements. Just because the first one was a disaster it doesn’t mean the next person will be.
Stop bringing work home. Chat with hubby and tell him to implement a “no work” rule after 5pm.
Organise your schedule better using diaries, work planners etc
You won’t get different results if you keep doing the same thing day in day out, the pressure won’t just go away. Have a meeting without kids in the background and come to a conclusion that doesn’t jeopardise the success of your business and family life. Good luck
I can imagine it must be difficult.
One idea is saying no, you can't manage and your husband helps more with what you do.
Another idea is trying to find part time help in the business again, start with casual help and see how they go.
Have you thought about hiring an aupair? Having someone to help with the house and kids to free up more of your time.
I think it comes down to what you want to do, would you rather have more time with the kids or more time with work. How busy is your husband? And how much does he help at home?
I would suggest looking to hire someone else you so your job and you training them really really well. You can always help out with little things then, but the workload won't be entirely yours
Lazy people will have been lazy in the past.
Dishonest people will have been dishonest before.
Always interview prospective employees.
Have behavioural questions in the interview. "Describe the time you were faced with a problem. How did you go about resolving it ?" That sort of question makes them describe the behaviour, so you can assess how they operate.
And ALWAYS ask for previous boss referees. That you can talk directly to.
Don't just believe written ones. And don't rely on references from their friends. Of course those references will be glowing ones.
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