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You're kid isn't cute. He's a fcuking brat who needs to be told no.

 You read my mind!
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 We must know the same people!!
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Women who have multiple pregnancies with all babies taken into care should be sterilised

 I do say this out loud
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 I do too
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Stop standing in front of the shopping centres entrance and smoking!!! I don't want to inhale your poison on my way into the shops. Go sit in your car with the windows closed and poison yourself if you must. Then rinse your mouth and invest in some chewing gum so you don't come huffing your smokey breath round the shops

 Omg yes!!! This irritates me so much. And people who smoke next to your car and nearly leaning against it. Yesterday I had an older man light up and start smoking right by my car. I had to tell him to move so I could get my kid in the car. Fuckin wankers.
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 Isn't it weird to think that not that long ago, everyone could still smoke in pubs and they had smoking/non smoke sections of restaurants, so weird!
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Mum, it's my baby not your baby. Stop calling him your baby. He's your grandson. Please step back and let me learn how to be a mum 😑

 Sending you hugs !
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 My mum did this and it drove me crazy.
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I hate my whole in-law family

 Haha this was mine. I hate you In laws, you’re all freaking crazy!
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To the students in my class that fight constantly and tell me when another person looked at them (I don't have a junior class)- have a scoop on concrete and harden up because I don't give a flying f*ck about your petty problems.

I know it seems harsh but when kid are abused at home etc it gives perspective on looking at someone while talking.

To the parents- stop bubble wrapping your kids and let them fight their own battles. Stop being helicopter parents and babying them. You don't need to tell me when a child looked sideways at your child.

 Oh I am a teacher of young ones and I see early signs of this pathetic behaviour. No resilience, too busy caring about what other people are doing / should be doing / not doing. Being an utter pest, draining on me, the aide and consuming our time from the other kids. Will barely write their name on paper with out a thumbs up, high 5, positive reinforcement. And no, they do not have fine motor / intellectual issues that prevent them from doing this.
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I'm so fu****g over changing the bedsheets. Why can't you get up and pee????

 Hope your kids put you in a nursing home with mean staff
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 Right back at you retard^^^
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Stop asking me every other day if I've found a job! Yes, I get it, you want me to go back to work, which I am not opposed to but where the hell do you think I'm going to work? Your schedule is crazy, you never know where or when you are going to be called out for a job. You might be out for two hours or you might be gone for a week. Where do you think I'm going to put the kids? This means I can only logistically work during school hours and those jobs are hard to come by. Yes, I'm looking, yes I'm asking around, yes I've applied for a few so shut up. It's a small town and jobs are hard to come by in the best of circumstances. Believe me when I find one you'll be the first to know.

 *big hugs*
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 why does it mean you can only work school hours?
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 I can only work school hours because his hours are not set. He is on call and he never knows when or how long a job will take. Sometimes he works "normal hours", other times he works late, other times he is away for a week working in another town. I don't know of any employer who would be willing to hire someone who doesn't know if they would actually be able to come to work when scheduled. It'd be like, "hey, yeah I know I'm supposed to be there tonight but my husband just got called to Sydney. Sorry!" We have no family to leave the kids with and while I'm sure our friends would help out, I don't think they'd appreciate it being a regular thing. So, right now it's school hours or work from home.
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 ^so you dont have osch or childcare in your town?
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 Sounds like an excuse not to work. Majority of working parents do not work school hours they pay for childcare
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It's none of your business why I don't work and trying to put me down for not working in front of others just tells me you are eaten up with jealousy that I have that option. You're really not that bright if you think I can't see that.

 I would NEVER say this out loud but the only people I see who don't work are lazy, dole bludging, leeches. Hence why I passionately feel that everyone should do something in and for their community! I get angry when people think they shouldn't have to work because there is a whole community which needs everyone to work as a team!
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 Fortunately you opinion isn't relevant, others with education and commonsense make policies!
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 Yes they make policies which encourage capitalism and selfish attitudes, everyone is all about their own fat gut and what's hanging off it
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 I don’t work... I have been struggling for months to get one. Got one as a cleaner, people didn’t pay, got a position as a casual over the holiday period since then nothing. Been applying for everything. Now I’m studying. I’m not lazy at all. You say something like that because you have never seen the other side!
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  ^ working and studying isn't sitting on your a*s doing nothing.
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 Yes and neither is staying home and raising your children and running the home.
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 I don’t work.. but I have money and guarantee that my savings pay more taxes than you so 🤷🏻‍♀️
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 You’re lazy ^^^
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 And ur a c**t
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I wish you weren't married, even just for one night. I just want to know what it would be like to be with you for a night, touch you, sleep next to you, kiss you.

 Yeah, please never say this. Ever.
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 You'd probably be disappointed when you see his small penis
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You make me laugh constantly going on about private schools and how your kids will get the best education. The curriculum is the same, the gum just looks a bit nicer. If you really want to brag send them to one of the better private schools 😂.

Just because you know we're trying doesn't mean I want regular questions about my cycle and sex life. I'll tell people when something happens.

 Oh fu****g hear hear!!! 👏👏
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I am sick of people using the word feminist who dont actually know what it means!

 What does it mean?
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 It means anyone who believes women should not be treated worse on account of their gender. Thats it. It doesnt mean women should never be critiscised, it doesnt mean women should dress / act / speak a certain way, or that they should not dress / act / speak a certain way. All of that is irrelevant, just that they shoudlnt be treated like a doormat based only on whats between their legs.
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"Im not ok!" 😩

 *hugs*
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 Same, I'm not okay! It's so hard to say to people. I said it once to someone and got shot down with deal with it.
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 I know as women/mums we generally dont admit we arnt ok. But who ever shot you down, their reaction says more about them than it does you. Please talk to your gp about seeking theropy. It does help. They are not there to judge you! Big hugs.
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Every article or study about the benefits of breastfeeding, are not "shaming" parents that bottle feed.
Every time I see an article on FB about the benefits of breastfeeding, a bunch of people jump on and comment "fed is best" or "for those of us that couldn't breastfeed..." or "my baby would have starved to death..."
And it's like calm down Susan, it wasn't a personal attack. I don't loose my s**t every time I see an add for formula!